Heard & seen a lot of "kisah benar" ( real life story) on married men who cheated on their wives. It was a very sad situation...from newly married couples to golden couples who are married for years. In fact, it is rather rampant now. Make me think, what happen to all the people now!!!
Men do not need any reasons to cheat. Given a chance, they say 99% of the men will cheat on their wives. I read this from somewhere,ok.
The truth is temptation is everywhere, and most of men just don't think with their head and succumb to it...being lack of will power or plain lusty!!!!. Also when this happen, whatever intelligence and wisdom all goes down to the drain.
When a man start to cheat, he cease to think anymore. I do not know,maybe it also got something to do with that person's moral and principle in life whether they want to stay faithful to their spouse or not.
Men do not need to have any love or any emotional attachment with the women they have affairs with. To them, is more on the "physical thing", although I admit some affairs do have feelings involved. Anyway, men feel they have nothing to lose as society stigma is always more pointed towards the women.
Also, the double standard in life. It's forever ok for the men to stray and is like an accepted norm in life. Women are generally more forgiven & they easily accepted their stray husband back especially for the sake of the children. So, women are taken for granted.