i agree. we better stop.
yes, the hindu side needs to be fulfilled. that i agree.
if the guy come and say he wants to convert, yes, we can help out sort things from becoming a mess.
all these mess comes up when that guy come to us and say he is already converted.
when that happens, we (as in we excluding the guy who plonked down the trouble to us) are bound tight by the rules.
i hope you believe me when i say that we too are frustrated when all these happens. we are unhappy too because this gives islam a bad name.